By Meheck Mukherjee
Are you confused and always questioning your parenting techniques – old school versus the new?
Are you trying to raise your child in the present, from the rules of the past to live an independent life in the future?
Effective Parenting is often translated as results like - professional success, fame, money rich, family - partner, children - the typical life which is mediocre even in the definition of it.
Success today is authentic - good health, abundance, calm and blissful presence, no masks, kind heart and spirit. The question is how do we arrive at it.
After trauma and chaos comes healing and tranquility.
WHAT WERE PARENTS DOING EARLIER ?
Training children into discipline with control and domination to bring academic and extracurricular results - leading them into conventional jobs such as engineering, law, medicine, journalism, politics, music, dance and art forms too. Monogamy and joint family systems along with hierarchy at home and work were enforced and practiced. THE QUEEN BEE syndrome where along with male chauvinism even the females in authority exercised extreme control over other women.
The next generation - 60s through 90s brought a time of loving coercion, managing the child’s schedules diplomatically in order to maneuver the child's path not by force but by love (largely result oriented conditioning) into more modern careers. The dawn of the digital world brought more exposure and parents and children started embracing technology. The control systems and the parental gaslighting systems became discrete and were projected nonverbally rather than verbally. Parents with inner child wounds and pressures of nuclear family units passed on generational trauma to children in silent ways in their personalities, behaviours and actions. Children are not trained by words, they mimic the energy of a parent. This resulted in what I call THE BEES IN THE BOX syndrome. The lid is open but the bees are still meandering above it; unable to fly far and wide.
WHAT DO PARENTS HAVE TO DO NOW ?
Today's children are a completely different species, with technology and AI inbuilt in the DNA. Weakened immunity due to vaccines, emotionally repressed, addicted to alcohol, vaping, dmt, mushrooms, media and games, exploring sexuality (open to LGBTQA experiences and polygamy) in ways much different than earlier generations. Their career choices are evolving and have never existed before. The role of the parent has completely changed. The role of a human being on earth is changing. Raising Conscious Children in such an environment is only possible by going back to the roots, reconnecting to the wisdom within, as our inner compass, our heart leads us to freedom. To compete with AI in the future, developing the heart center and letting go of the mind completely. And parents may have to go through this process along with the children. This is breaking the Generational Trauma Cycle. Finding our own spirituality not just by lent down, forced, superficial methods but by actually being curious and exploring the inner truth - Why particular traditions like chanting, lighting lamps, piercing, symbolism, and bright colours are used?
Various ancient sciences and therapies like Yoga, Vastu, Astrology, Ayurved, Homeopathy, Essential Oils, Nature Therapy, Forest Walks, Healing Herbs, Sound Healing, Family Constellations, Reiki, Pranic Healing, Somatic Healing, Practicing Breathwork, Aikya and other oneness programs add age old wisdom that can reconnect our children to their true self, aligning them to their inner divinity.
As a side effect of this, children will arrive at their true purpose on earth in this dimension. They will be able to take courageous steps and choose unconventional methods and bold career choices. Material success, good health and a sharp mind would simply be a side effect of this MINDLESS PARENTING.
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